Vicky out to make a difference

A DUFFTOWN mum has used her experiences as a single parent to help other families.

Moray's youngest children's panel member Vicky Ogg

Vicky Ogg (21) is Moray’s youngest Children’s Panel member.

She first became aware of the Panel while working towards her degree in child and youth studies.

Vicky said: "It sounded really interesting, and I thought that my personal experiences would help me to give something back to others.

"I fell pregnant at 19 and was in an unhealthy relationship; I have worked hard to bring up my son by myself.

"I had a lot of help, but it was difficult, and it made me realise that there are families who don’t have that help and are really struggling.

"I have been in the position of knowing how difficult this is, and I want to help others."

When she first attended an information evening, Vicky thought that becoming a Panel member was not for her. "Everyone was very middle-aged, and I felt quite young," she said.

"The chair stopped me on my way out and asked me if I would consider applying, as they wanted more young people on the panel. I knew that I had the time to give, so I reconsidered, and I’m glad I did.

"The biggest reward is when I see the decisions that I have made helping families, and that I can make a difference to their lives.

"I also think it’s a benefit that I’m bit younger than some of the other members, as I think children and young people find it easier to relate to me.

Although rewarding, being a Children’s Panel volunteer requires commitment and an ability to deal with difficult and emotional situations.

Vicky said: "It does tug at your heart-strings. I have seen families that are a shambles and mums who are really struggling.

"I have sat on hearings where a 16-year-old mum might love her child, but isn’t mature enough to cope with motherhood.

"It’s really sad when you see people who have suffered misfortune. But it can be frustrating too when you see people that you know you can’t help."

Those selected to serve on the Panel have to undertake thorough training.

"The trainers expect a lot from you, but it is important, as you are dealing with people’s lives."

"As a result of becoming a Panel member, I am much more confident, and more aware of what goes on in society.

People who commit to serving on the Children’s Panel must have time to give to attending regular hearing sessions.

Vicky spoke to her employer in advance of applying, to ensure that she could devote the time needed for the position.

"I work in a nursery, and I did explain before I took up the post that I had a commitment to the Panel," she said.

"They are happy in principle, but I do have to find someone who will swap with me on the days I have a hearing, and I work extra shifts to make up the time.

"I usually spend about one or two half days a month at hearings, but I will take on more when I am on holiday from work."